💌 Personal Essays

Being a Killjoy Across the Pond

Jace has another life update, and this time, it involves a plane

Dec 3, 2025 • Bisexual Killjoy and Bi Academic

Arriving Late to My Own Bi+ History

Bailey reflects on lost archives, long-distance activism, and the ache of building bi+ community from fragments.

Oct 22, 2025 • Bisexual Killjoy

When Small Starts Lead to Big Rewards

Jace reflects on their beginnings as a Bi+ educator

Oct 8, 2025 • Bisexual Killjoy

Challenge Accepted: Plan a Wedding in 10 Days or Less

Jace tells the tale of how they got married with all the juicy details 🥂

Sep 17, 2025 • Bisexual Killjoy

Married, Monogamous, Still Bisexual

Bailey reflects on three years of monogamous marriage & strangers' audacity.

Sep 3, 2025 • Bisexual Killjoy

How Did No One Realize I Had ADHD?

Seriously, how did we not figure this out earlier?

Apr 9, 2025 • Bisexual Killjoy

I didn't feel guilty about being a killjoy until...

It's been a hell of a week.

Feb 14, 2025 • Bisexual Killjoy and Bi Academic

Being a Bisexual Killjoy While Building Community

Lynn begins the move to Boston

Jul 24, 2024 • Bisexual Killjoy

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