At this point, we're professional bisexuals. Give It To Me Bi is a bi-weekly advice column in your favorite Bisexual Killjoys answer all your questions about being bi+.
I know it's not the same thing, but I have gone through a lot of questioning and feeling like I don't belong in plurisexual spaces because I am ace and sex repulsed. Feeling like in this over sexualized world and in a weirdly objectified and over-sexualized queer label (most of the queer labels are over sexualized for the sake og titilating the masses *eye roll* ) has made me wonder sometimes even now if I should not be in queer spaces because of it.
Keep on keepin' on, we both belong in these spaces.
Love this question & response for so many reasons.
AND (though not the main point), there *are* options related to specifically to low libido. Obviously there are significant healthcare discrepancies in perimenopausal/menopausal care (plus add all the other intersections!) & oftentimes the libido part specifically is dismissed. If anything, I hope you can find a med provider who is knowledgeable & willing to discuss options if you haven't already and/or want to...you get to choose of course!
Also favorite line: "Your queerness is not measured by the volume of your desire. If it were, the entire community would be collectively screwed (ha)."
I know it's not the same thing, but I have gone through a lot of questioning and feeling like I don't belong in plurisexual spaces because I am ace and sex repulsed. Feeling like in this over sexualized world and in a weirdly objectified and over-sexualized queer label (most of the queer labels are over sexualized for the sake og titilating the masses *eye roll* ) has made me wonder sometimes even now if I should not be in queer spaces because of it.
Keep on keepin' on, we both belong in these spaces.
Bi+ community and support is such an important touch stone. Queerness comes in all forms!🩷💜💙
Love this question & response for so many reasons.
AND (though not the main point), there *are* options related to specifically to low libido. Obviously there are significant healthcare discrepancies in perimenopausal/menopausal care (plus add all the other intersections!) & oftentimes the libido part specifically is dismissed. If anything, I hope you can find a med provider who is knowledgeable & willing to discuss options if you haven't already and/or want to...you get to choose of course!
Also favorite line: "Your queerness is not measured by the volume of your desire. If it were, the entire community would be collectively screwed (ha)."
Medical providers who are knowledgeable on Bi+ intersections are so crucial and needed!
So so good and real and relatable. Thank you!!
We're really passionate about sharing how small, practical steps can really help blossom Bi+ joy and belonging 💙💜🩷